June 30, 2002: We got married!
February 2007-January 2009: half-assed preventing followed by TTC followed by testing, acupuncture, treatments...
Late August 2008: sent in the first round application for adoption.
Late January 2009: sent in second round application, got fingerprinted, background check, physicals, yada yada yada
February 2009: start homestudy interviews
May 2009: video, yes, a video for our profile, finished interviews, write letters, freak over what kind of stationary will copy well and still look cool.
June 29, 2009: approved for adoption and on the list #46!
January 13, 2010: the first call regarding a potential match-#34
March 16, 2010: #32
May 7, 2010: #28
June 29, 2010: second call regarding potential match - #25
September 2, 2010: #21
September 24, 2010: #18
November 4, 2010 - third call regarding potential match
November 9, 2010: #17
December 15, 2010: #17
February 1, 2011: #14
February 23, 2011: #10
March 8, 2011: #8
April 7, 2011: #6
May 26, 2011: Just kidding, we're actually #7. It doesn't matter. We're "at the top".
June 10, 2011: The "official" call telling us we're matched.
June 14, 2011: We bring our baby boy home.
December 15, 2011: The adoption is finalized.
June 2012: We start the process to adopt again.
July 2012: We have our homestudy update meeting, where we realize we had forgotten to get our fingerprints done for background checks. Curses! It'll be at least a couple more months while those get processed.
September 28, 2012: We finally get on the list at #45. Everything except the video and expectant parent letters are done. We keep forgetting about those.
November 5: Expectant parent letters and video are finished and turned in.
November 2012: #43
December 2012: #42
January 2013: #40
February 2013: #37
March 2013: #31
April 2013: #27
May 10, 2013: #27. Expectant parents have inquired about us because of our profile on the agency website. *sigh* been down this road before. Not. getting. excited. yet.
May 13, 2013: We're matched! For real!
May 29, 2013: Baby A is born
May 31, 2013: Placement ceremony and we go home from the hospital
June 3, 2013: Baby A's mom decides to parent. We fall apart, then slowly start picking up the pieces of our failed match.
June 7, 2013: #25
July 2013: #23
August 2013: #22
August 21, 2013: Called about a special case. We agree to be profiled. We are rejected a week later.
September 2013: #20
October 2013: #16
November 2013: #16
December 2013: #15
January 2014: #13
February 2014: #14 (no placements, one family on hold came back active pushing us down the list)
March 2014: Matched on March 25th with Baby N
April 2014: Match with Baby N falls through. Mom disappeared before papers were signed and Dad stated he would contest an adoption. Baby N goes back to the county child protective services. #10 on the list.
May 2014: Still #10, no placements in April bah.
June 2014: Still #10. Getting transferred to another caseworker because ours is going on maternity leave. Oh, the irony.
June 25, 2014: Matched. EDD is August 31
September 6, 2014: Baby Z is born!